Forgiving, you have to find a way to make it simple.

when somebody hurts you they take power over you, if you don't forgive them then they keep the power.

Forgiving.
It isnt simple, but you have to find a way to make it that way because it will only make you bitter, you have to find a way to not over think the situation , to not stay stuck on the past.

Take it from someone who knows what its like to be hurt, I . was. so. angry.

I forgave someone that I thought I could never bring myself to forgive, and it's amazing how much weight is lifted off your heart, it's amazing how walking around even seems lighter,easier, everything becomes more of a breeze rather than living with a block inside of you that unables you to open up.
I honestly have God to thank for softing me up & making room once again to let some one re enter my life.

"There’s healing in the air tonight, I thought the pain was here to stay, but forgiveness made a way. I lost count of the ways you let me down but no matter how many times you weren’t around. I’m alright now...cause God picked up my heart and helped me through and shined light on the one thing left to do and that's forgive you, I forgive you .. ♥"